Let’s Celebrate Optimism

NDP LEADER Jack Layton always played it big.

Jack Layton knew how to play the game.

In the world of politics, he was a rare bird indeed. Full of hope, full of optimism. He oozed warmth, so much so that some political pundits criticized him for having a smile on his face far too often.

This morning when I heard he had moved on to his next big adventure, I couldn’t help but feel for his family, for his party, and frankly for the country. He did it right, by reminding us that as a nation not only do we have a responsibility to improve the lives of our fellow human, but it can be done.

Yes, we all bare personal responsibility for our own experience. But it’s equally true that selfishness, whether collectively as a corporation or individually as a neighbour, can send those who may already be struggling further down a road to despair.

Layton’s vision was to make a difference that bettered people’s lives, rather than merely their pocketbooks. His desire was authentic, and therefore infectious.

My hope is that Layton’s legacy will inspire others to expand what he started. As a country, we have the opportunity to create something unique. A model that others can follow that creates an environment for individual creativity, expression and entrepreneurship all the while supporting the whole.

Thank you Jack Layton for providing an example for the rest of us to follow.

Peace and blessings.

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Life’s Sweet Nectar

Stillness comes even to hummingbirds

This morning I spied a rufous hummingbird drinking nectar from a fiery red lily in my backyard. I pulled out my binoculars to get a closer look and was granted the gift of seeing this tiny vibrating creature perch on a leaf and rest a moment or two before it went in again for another dip.
It seems even hummingbirds stop to smell the roses.
Sometimes life is so sweet we need to stop and drink it in. Gifts arrive unexpectedly, and sometimes because we are busy, or even embarrassed by the offer and therefore unable to receive, we fail to take the time to acknowledge what has happened.
These are moments when the law of circulation is present. As we give, so we receive. Give of yourself, and the world can’t fail but to give back.
But why? Why does this happen, and why are there times when it seems to occur in clusters to the point where we are overwhelmed.
This has its basis in another spiritual principle – the law of correspondence. As we think, we create and we create according to that deep seated picture we have of ourselves. Sometimes that picture forms because of the beliefs we carried about ourselves since childhood. Sometimes it comes from experience. Other times it’s influenced by societal and cultural pressures. Layer upon layer we build up ideas of who we are, and the world reflects back to us that truth.
So what’s up the hummingbird?
Resting to see the beauty is one way we get to reframe our experience, moment by moment, piece by piece. Beauty, like Spirit or what I sometimes simply call Energy, is infinite – and so therefore always present, even in the darkest of hours when our world feels like it’s crashing down all around us. By lifting our minds to see this greater experience, we practice creating a new belief about ourselves and our place in the universe.
The nectar of life is sweet. There is beauty in everything. And as we allow this greater truth to be our experience, we let go of those things that no longer serve us. And the Universe, that great Whatever, gives back, in abundance.

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An Ode to Pride

A sense of pride can move mountains, or even city hall.

Where I live, city hall put up the rainbow flag for the first time ever this week. How times have changed.

Back in 1997, the mayor of this same city refused to declare Gay Pride Day. He was willing to announce Lesbian and Gay Day, but his feeling was there was nothing to be proud about. That was enough to unleash the hounds, and the human rights tribunal found him in violation.

So what exactly is pride – and why do some fear it while others embrace it?

From a traditional standpoint, pride is, after all, the number one hit on the Seven Deadly Sins chart. The poet Dante described it as “love of self perverted to hatred and contempt for one’s neighbour.” That’s pride holding hands with its partner judgment.

But there’s another side to pride. It’s that sense of self that allows us to expand and grow. True pride is strictly an inside job. It’s never about the external, or what others think. Instead, it’s an acknowledgement of a journey. In order to feel proud of ourselves, it requires that we recognize all the hateful slings and arrows we so often aim at ourselves and then, rather than aim these same arrows at others, we can allow our higher selves to simply let them fall to the ground.

It’s in that moment that we stand tall. It’s in that moment that the true light that shines from within reveals itself.

We know we have pride when we feel joy; when we can celebrate that inner self and dance with it.

Because this life thing is a dance – with all its swings and twists and turns.

Like the flag that went up on city hall, rise up! The world needs you. All of you.

Peace.

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Finding Meaning

Peace of Mind, Peace of Spirit

As I’m writing this, my thoughts are with Japan.

It’s so hard to not get caught up in what is unmistakeably one of the most significant dramas to unfold in my living memory.

But I also know that what is taking place there – from the tsunami to the explosions at the nuclear facility – is a divine idea in the mind of Spirit, even if my human mind has difficulty seeing exactly what that divine idea might be.

The irony is, whenever I try and think about what it could be, I realize, that like the Tao, I am by turns limiting that One Great Consciousness.

That’s the thing about us humans. We so rarely think big enough. If you’ve ever said: “why didn’t I think of that?” you know what I’m talking about.

I’m not trying to be light about what is clearly a very serious situation. What I’m trying to do is be gentle with myself when my inner being is so tempted to be caught up in the fear, the worry, the anxiety, the pain and the anguish. That only leads to a closed mind, and while we don’t always know the answer,  if we leave our minds open, we have a chance of seeing.

So here’s what I see. That everyone hears the call. That every scientific talent that has anything to offer is offering it to Japan right now. That every person working on restoring the country – from its electricity to water to transportation – is able to so do with a peaceful mind that is focused on its intention, and loving in its delivery. That every country opens its doors to the Japanese people with compassion, and that the right people stay behind to rebuild the country in a way that serves everyone. That businesses and industry come to Japan’s side with the consciousness of service.

And yet, I know too that as I say all these things, my thoughts are limited. So, I open my mind to all of this, knowing that there is so much more this world can offer.

The limitless power that we know as God is present right here and right now. As we turn away from what appears to be, we open our eyes to the infinite possibility of what is.

My thoughts are with you Japan. Your sun is rising.
 

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It’s All About the Dance

“Dance is the movement of the universe concentrated in an individual.”  ~ Isadora Duncan

My mind is dancing right now.

It flits from one moment to the next, touching down briefly to capture some small fragment before moving on to the next thing, the next distraction, the next whatever I want to call it. It dips into the past, wonders about the future, makes lists of things to do, tries to solve problems and then leaves them.

“Take a breath!” I hear. It’s like Bob Fosse is in my head, telling me it’s time to lean into the experience, lean into the moment, forget what is or was, and just be. As he said, “The energy doesn’t end at the hands. I want such intensity that it feels like light is streaming from every finger.”

That energy, that light, cannot be planned. I can dance with my mind all I want, but it’s not until I reach in and relax into the space between the thoughts that my dance with life comes alive, that the “light” or Spirit, streams from my being.

As it is with dance, so it is with music. It is the space between the notes, the space between the movements that perfects the dance. It is that state of mind that knows there is nothing more perfect than the moment in time when there is no time. Timing really is everything.

So today, I dance with myself. I watch and pay attention to the dance emerging in my head. I ask myself – am I dancing joy or tragedy, am I dancing towards something, or away, and I make my choice accordingly.

And when I reach that point of inner stillness, when my mind is dancing with Love, dancing with the Divine, I recognize my own perfection and am at peace.

And so I dance.

 

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Birthing a New You

It’s the irony of being Canadian that just as the days grow darkest, we are thrown into the story of new birth.
So it is for many of us, and so it was for me many Christmases ago when I spent Christmas Eve and Christmas Day caring for my first and only newborn.
Life is precious in all its forms, but it is in the baby that we see that purity the most clearly. Not because it isn’t there later in life, but because our eyes get cluttered up with the outer appearance.
The truth is, we are all that One Light, that One Love, and no matter how old we get, how far away we may be from where we started or where we want to go, that Light that is within us still shines.
We are creative beings, constantly capable of generating new life in so many forms it’s often hard to fathom.
Embrace the season, with all its unexpected gifts. With loving kindness to ourselves and others, we expand our consciousness and make ourselves known.

The light within always shines

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Winning the Lottery of Life

I’m an infinite being.

Sounds cocky, doesn’t it? But the truth is, I am. The trouble is I don’t always believe that to be true.

That’s the tricky thing about being human – we want one thing in our lives, but we can’t figure out why we get something else.

It has to do with a little known law called The Law of Mental Equivalents. Our minds are a reservoir of beliefs. We may do our spiritual work, but how close are we to embodying our spiritual selves?

Take the lottery winner. A couple of million bucks comes zooming his way, and within a year maybe two, studies show most lottery winners are right back where they started.

Some argue it has to do with a lack of financial experience, but it also has a lot to do with mental equivalents. If I believe myself to be poor, despite all appearances otherwise, I will bring myself back to that state unless I do something to change it.

When faced with challenges, the bigger idea is to get a new idea. Begin to incorporate what you want into your mindset, even if you take only a small step towards that. Evolution never occurs when we’re standing still.

Like the spawning salmon, we have an infinite supply of gold within us. We simply need to release it into the eternal ocean that only knows how to say “yes”.

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Never Never Give In

Take to time reflect on what you want.

There were a lot of laughs a week ago when Jon Stewart had Barack Obama revise his famous “yes we can” mantra by adding the word “but.”

Today, the laugh is more like a whimper.

Mid-term elections being what they now are, the president, and those that continue to support him, could choose to feel defeated.

And that would be the first mistake.

Defeat takes place first in our thoughts. People voted in Obama because they wanted to see positive change from health care reform to the closure of the Guantanamo. It hasn’t happened as fast as the public would like, and it hasn’t happened as fast as Obama would like.

That’s the way it works sometimes in all our lives.

The challenge, as Winston Churchill told a class of young students in 1941, is to “never give in”.

Churchill went even further. “Never, never, never, never, in nothing great or small, large or petty, never given in except to convictions of honour and good sense.”

In other words – hold the vision, until such time as the vision no longer holds the essence of you.

As we uncover the truth for ourselves, we see that what we held dear at one point may not be true later. Then we are not giving in. We are evolving.

To never give in means to stand by our convictions. To have faith in ourselves, and in that higher power that is always within us that knows the truth of who we are.

In this place, we dissipate all fear, and make room for more light to come in.

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We are Family

Love doesn't discriminate

This weekend, the Okanagan Pride Festival makes a bold statement – we are all family.

Sounds pretty obvious, doesn’t it? But according to one young person I spoke with this week, there are some people here in the Okanagan who believe it’s inappropriate to mix young people with any kind of public event that openly welcomes peoples of diverse sexualities.

When she told me this, I was somewhat surprised. Who wouldn’t want to attend a festival that offered up sunshine, great music, a walk in the park with our pooches, and a generally creative loving supportive environment?

But then I realized that yes, there are people that are afraid. Afraid that we don’t know ourselves well enough to maintain our own boundaries in the midst of diversity. Some of us are afraid of bending the sexuality line because we don’t know where we will stand once we’re done with it.

Yet, whenever I’ve spoken to anyone about their sexual awakening, every one of them – straight or gay, bi or transgendered – had a pretty strong inkling who they were long before puberty set in. In our society, that makes life easy for those who are straight – much harder for those who aren’t and have to spend what can amount to a lifetime either denying that truth and making sexual pretzels of ourselves, or running the risk of being trashed and bashed on the road to self-acceptance.

I believe that making Okanagan Pride a family-friendly affair does a number of things that moves us past the days of open cross-dressing and bra-burning. What it does is go deeper. It takes us into our homes – reminding us that for each LGBTQ out there, there is a mother and a father, and increasingly, a child or two as well, and a community of allies ready to embrace them.

“Exposing” ourselves to people who embrace different sexualities does not threaten who we are as individuals. What is does is expand our understanding and appreciation for our diversity, and allows us to see that we are – at depth – all One.

When we can accept who we are, we are more capable of accepting those around us. When we deny ourselves, or judge others, we limit our world and throw up a false veil that prevents us from seeing the unity between us.

This is a spiritual truth. Just as skin colour doesn’t define us, neither does our inner sexual being. God/Spirit/Energy – whatever you want to call it – only creates goodness, and just as there are flowers of many sizes, shapes and colours, so it is that we humans express that infinite idea as well through our very diversity.

Love is at the core of this festival, and that can never be wrong.

So celebrate your family in all its diversity and give yourself the gift of an expanded and complete sexual awareness. It too is a gift.

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Towers of Strength


The outer reflects the inner.

I’ve just returned from an inspiring visit to Chicago where I attended a spiritual conference intended to uplift and enlighten me – and it accomplished exactly that, but not quite in the way I imagined.

My intent going in was to shift gears in myself, and I set aside these nine days to accomplish that task. My expectation was that the shift would occur through the experience of the conference itself, and then I surrendered to the experience.

I spent some time searching for the answers through the speakers who came before us – including media darling Michael Beckwith and the powerhouse that presents herself as August Gold. But in truth, the answers came through much more humble means.

While riding the CT on the way to a Frank Lloyd Wright house, I spotted a transit sign posted on the wall. The sign referred to the Civil Rights Act of 1964, and reminded all passengers that the local transit authority doesn’t discriminate on the basis of race, colour or religion. The implication, to me at least, was that I would be wise to follow suit.

It got me thinking deeply about the impact such a statement has on its people. And it gave me a context to what I had already noticed – a city where the perceived boundaries between these three things appeared to be no thicker than a veil, where people were consistently respectful, and courteous to the point hat it left me feeling like they actually cared. Where people looked each other in the eye, and as they say in Avatar, really saw each other.

I’d catch clusters of friend standing laughing together – white, black, Latino, Asian. Mixed race couples that were clearly comfortable with each other and failed to attract any attention from others.

I started to see too that each of these groups were made up of people born around 1964 or later. And I started to imagine what it would be like back then when a growing number of people set into mind that they wanted to do this societal thing in a completely different way. That they wanted to show that we are all One, and we’re experiencing this world as a collection of human experiences.

I know when I mindfully treat others with love, with kindness, with an open heart, my experience widens, my fear lessens, and my faith and trust in myself grows. And the more I practice this part of my daily expression, the more embedded it becomes to the point where I no longer need to think about it. I simply practice the art of seeing rightly.

To sum up, I’ll borrow a line I spied while grooving to the music at the House of Blues – “unity in diversity”.  When we live from a place of unity, we create a new vision for the world, and a new expression. It feels good, and it is good.

This city of skyscrapers may be an architectural dream, but what those buildings now symbolize to me is the towering strength of the spirit that moved so deeply among so many that they changed their way of being in the world in order to create a new one.

We can all do that, any time any where.

I invite you to join in.

Peace.

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